You do. There really is no fussing here. If you are living a complicated life you are probably filling it with stuff just to make it interesting. If your life needs lots of ‘stuff’ in it to ‘make’ it interesting, you are undoubtedly using your intelligence in a detrimental way.
I know its bold to say it. But when you are using your intelligence in a focused way – in line with what you want – you start to lose all the accoutrements that you have gathered along the way – the bits that you add to make your life significant.
Stop. JUST STOP. All you are doing is wasting time and energy. Why am I bothering to say this? Because I believe we are all here for a reason. We are all given gifts to add something to this earth in this lifetime.
You are YOU for a reason. You were born to the parents you have and given the life you lead for a reason.
All we need to do is to find it.
So stop filling your life with stuff. OR start to recognise what ‘stuff’ you have around you… and it will come in all shapes and forms; people (friends that don’t add anything to your life), clothes (those that fill the wardrobe as a big comfort blanket) the list is unequivocally yours. Only you will know what is and what isn’t ‘yours’ and what is just an ‘add on’
Start today and start to clear away the things that don’t add value to your life. Start to take the life and time back that is truly yours.
Kerry, Your Coach