Do you wonder if this is what you are ‘supposed’ to be doing? Does that question pop into your head at times? Why am I here? Another Monday morning…
Well I can tell you with absolute honesty, that when your mind is asking these questions of you…
The answer is NO!
I know it is bold of me to say so. But think about it, if it was a Yes! It would be YES! Anything other than that is a no. I cannot be clearer about this. If you are not saying yes. It is no. Maybe – no. Kinda – no. Well… no. A yes is only a yes. A no is anything other than that.
NO is a great place to start!
What? How can it be great? Because, once you recognise that a no is not miraculously going to change into a yes… no matter how much time, thought or wishing… without action it will not change.
What do you want?
This is my favourite question. Once we have an agreed ‘No’, we have a benchmark. We can move from here. It is only when we are not clear that we are unhappy with how things are, that we do not seek a change. You now know.
What shall I do with a NO?
Start journalling today. If you are lost for where to start, here are some ideas to get you being a little more intentional about what you want.
Write three things you are:
- grateful for
- would like more of
- and that you would like less of.
Start creating a life to go from ‘Is this it?!’ to ‘This is IT!’